Dear miss Caine,

Much has been written regarding the use of chastity belts and specially made penis corsets to control the male, but in my opinion there is nothing to beat a good strong heavy girdle to enforce your will upon even the strongest of men.

I have bought several of this type of under wear, and I have reinforced the legs of them for even greater security.

Then I sew several large loops around the waist of the girdle and :". a  strong leather belt through these loops. I then fix a tiny lock through the belt and PRESTO! -total control.

He can neither take it off, nor can he play his favourite game of tossing off in private. He even has to ask nicely to go to the loo: Something that I do enjoy dragging out,and I make sure that he is pleading to run up to relieve himself. When I relent, I makea big thing of sending him for his key, unlocking him, and standing just outside the bathroom door as he completes his business.

He is not allowed to mention sex, and I LOVE to watch his pleading face as I undress for bed, often taking AGES to actually get into bed, making sure that he can see what he dare not ask for.

Many is the night that I have unlocked his girdle, stroked and teased him mercilessly, - then sent him off to fetch a nice clean pantie girdle and ask nicely to be locked up for the night!!

Any tantrums are dealt with in the strictest way, and he knows it. When he has recovered his self control, I inform him of the number of spanks he has earned with his latest out - burst, and the following night he is given his just desserts.

Experience has taught him never to argue or question on these occasions, as I have been known to double and even treble the original number of strokes previously allotted.

At nine ' 0 clock precisely the following night, he will go upstairs, and prepare for his dues.

To make sure that his bottom is nicely thrusted out, I have made a strap that clips on to the back of his belt, passes under his bottom, and clips, with some struggling, to the front of his belt.

This has the effect of separating the cheeks stretching his girdle to its limits, making a drum- tight surface for me to work on with my special paddle.

After a while of letting him sweat it out, I go upstairs and secure him over the bench with wrist, waist and ankle straps, I may then go back downstairs for a while, taking anything up to two or three hours before I see to him, especially if there is a late movie on the t.v.

What he knows however, is that when I, DO go up, Then I shall be bringing with me a flat piece of heavy rubber, ridged on one  side, plain on the other about 15" long,/3"  " wide, and 4" thick. I stand behind him and apply the prescribed number of strokes ALL on one cheek, pause for effect, then lay the same amount of strokes on the other. I always finish up with an even dozen with the cane, regardless of how many spanks I have administered, and, as I know how much he hates this part of his punishment , I take my own sweet time in languidly lashing into his offered, seperated girdled cheeks. Only when I have finished this part do I release him, and put him into bed.

This has turned him into a nice and respectful husband, who is only too eager to do as I tell him.

I cannot recommend the use of girdles too highly, it keeps him on his toes to please me, with his botty nicely and regularly tramlined, his girdle tightly in place I have the added pleasure that he can never even be tempted to be unfaithful to me, and that's just the way I intend to keep it!

yours truly,

Rita S.& 'girdled' Surrey.